How To Know if a Girl is Interested in You

Girls are difficult and complicated and we all know it. I think they know it too, and that is the reason why we are having such a difficult time in reading them and their needs. For this reason, when we try to impress a girl, it is hard to tell whether he is actually interested or when she is only acting to please you.

The first step you need to do when you decide to pickup a girl in a bar or club is to take some time in order to observe her. In this respect, check to see if she looks at you. If she does like you, she will try to hold her gaze on you for a long time or even to pull it immediately the moment your eyes meet.

It is worth mentioning the fact that some girls are just watching men just like that. This does not mean that they really love you. For this, you need to identify the motive from within the context. Sometimes, if you check her friends, you might have your answer. When a girl likes a boy, she tends to share with her friends. In addition, if her friends are starting or looking at you, you might have a positive answer.

In the same time, if she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random chat about things such as the girl in question, general things about you, etc. This is only for testing the ground. Another interesting thing is the fact that her friends might tease her regarding your person. You can even hear “Be quiet” or “He might hear you." This definitely means that she waits for you to break the ice.

Now, the next step is to watch for signs of flirting. However, is she is indeed flirting; she may be difficult to read. Most girls flirt involuntarily, which means that they show only some unnoticeable signs of flirting. For example, flirt through their unconscious and through their body language. When you got all those flirting signs and approvals, you need to be bold and initiate a short conversation.

If you do not know where to start, you can easily choose some funny pickup lines in order break the ice. This is quite useful especially if you are usually shy in talking with girls. Cheesy pick up lines are the best way to make a girl laugh and smile. Hoverer, keep in mind that all those funny pickup lines are meant only for the beginning of the conversation. There is no point for you to go on with them when the conversation already started because the girl might feel offended and bored.

When the conversation started, try to learn that those little things that make a different will come in handy later. Therefore, you have nothing to worry about because you will find different topics to talk about. If you already saw those signs that she is likening you, then you will definitely find some common topics to discuss.

Again, I want to mention the fact that most boys tend to use funny pickup lines in order to avoid a real conversation, as well as some really bad jokes. If you decide to use bad jokes as a test, and the girl laughs at your boring jokes, then you might risk of looking like a comedy dork. Choose wisely, and treat a girl with respect. You will see you will have the best results.