Useful Dating Tips for Boys

As the saying states: “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” In this respect, you need to do your best in order to make a great first impression. I am sure that dating is not everybody’s most comfortable thing, but we still have to do it, and you might as well do it in the best way possible.

Since boys are in a how responsible for the whole date, they need to ask a girl out, they have a little bit of extra work to do. Knowing how difficult it is to ask a girl out and then to make the date memorable, I want to give you some advices you should keep in mind on your future date. I am sure that, if you try to fulfill these recommendations, you will definitely make the date a charm, and you will get a chance to repeat it, following the second date and the third date, and so on.

1. Pay for the table bill. Whether you take your date to the theater, a nice fancy restaurant or just out for coffee, you still need to pay the bill. I am sure that you will come across various girls who will insist in paying the bill, or at least splitting it. This should not happen. If you ask her out, you should be the one paying for the date. In the case, the girl insists on paying something out of the bill, let her and do not start fighting over the bill. You will take care of the next one.

2. The location is crucial. You need to think about the location in advance mostly since this will make your date great or worse. Contrary of what you might think, movies are not recommended for the first time. After all, you should be quite in the movie theater, and you will not get the option to talk or chat. I would recommend you to choose the dinner or coffee. Again, bars are not that great since the level of noise is actually pretty high. Take her where you feel more comfortable because you do not want to feel nervous all the time. In the same time, there is no need to exaggerate planning the first date. Keep it simple and moderately priced. There will be other days to show off.

3. When you take someone new to coffee or dinner, do not forget to bring your manner too. When you pick her up, get out of the car, and open the door for her. I know that this might sound a little bit too out-dated, but in fact, girls like to feel important. Do the same when you are letting her out of the car. In the same time, do not be late. It is better to wait for her and than let her wait for you. If you show her respect, you will receive the same time. Do not excessively drink or eat, and keep a level of politeness during the whole date.

4. Be confident and take charge of everything. I am sure that you have done some background check on your date using all those social networks and profiles. This is a good thing since you will be prepared with talking topics and subjects. When you feel there is nothing to talk about, remember one of her hobbies or passions. As long as you show confidence, you will make a good date and a good impression.

The conversation should cover multiple topics such as job, lifestyle, interests, likes, and dislikes. Listen to her replies too and do not start to talk only you. Make sure you complicate your date, but again, do not exaggerate with it because you will see desperate.

5. Timing is an important subject when talking about dating and the first date. Do not let your date last too long. If you happen to enjoy your night, I am sure that you do not want to end it soon, but it is the best thing to do. You will want to go on another one and another one, and you should make her feel like she wants more and more. You will feel when the time is right to stop and take your date home.

If you enjoyed your time on your date and you want to see her again, you should go ahead and give her a call. Do not wait too long to call her, such as three or four days, but, in the same time, you should not call her as soon as you get home. On the other hand, if you had a bad time and the date did not turn out as expected, there is no reason to despair. You still need to be honest. Tell her how you feel because there is no point in leading a bad relationship any further.