3 Successful Flirting Advices for Women

Flirting is an art. Some women are very good at this and they find it very natural and simple; others do not know how to do it, not even to respond to a flirt, which makes then pretty nervous and unconfident. Flirting can be easy, but it all depends on what you want to do next.

If you are looking for a one-night stand, then you can easily take over the conversation and let him know what you want. On the other hand, if you are looking for a serious relationship, you might want to slow down with the showing. In this case, you want to make him feel exposed, but in the same time, wanting to find out more regarding your personality. Here is where you should start to flirt with men in a more subtle manner.

When a man approaches you, first you must assume he is interested. Your job is to be able to flirt in a way that heightens his interests. If you have the attitude that every man who approaches you is seeking, you will show confidence in your flirting. There is also the problem of preening. The basics in flirting are smiling, laughing and open body language, but when you start playing with your hair, tilt your head and give provocative glances, then the man will know you are flirting in a serious manner.

1. The first trick is to use his name. This sounds pretty simple, and it is. In the same time, it is very provocative. However, you should not use it in every sentence you say. That would be very awkward. When you just meet the man, make a mental note of his name. If you already know him, and he walks around you, your first words should be “Hello John”. This will make him feel more special, and when you are talking on the phone, do the smile while you are doing so, because it has been proving to be far more effective.

2. The trick number two related to the wordless eye contact seduction. Here is what you need to do. When you are having a conversation, and he asks you a question such as “where are you from,” before you answer, make eye contact with a slight smile or neutral expression and hold it for a couple of seconds. Now, take your trick without breaking the eye contact, take a sip and answer the question, in the simplest way possible. The amount of time you need to reach your drink, take a sip, and put it back, makes him want more, but in the same time, it will make him want to know more about you.

3. Get into his personal space briefly. I said briefly because you do not want to be obvious. When you get into someone’s personal space, even with a few inches, you can easily disarm him or her. Once disarmed, you move back out again. You can easily do this trick by leaning to ask a question or to give an answer. When you invade his personal space, you can also touch his upper arm or sleeve. The point of this whole trick is to let him know you are on control, and you are perfectly capable and aware of your traits and advantages.

There were only a few suggestions and tricks to make your date even more powerful. If you follow these recommendations while you are on a date with men you just met, I am sure that you will take things to the next level. In the same time, you will show confidence and independence.