Online Dating Guide and Advices for Starters

After a long relationship or marriage, or after being alone for a long time, starting to date again might be quite difficult, especially if you consider yourself a little bit rusty. In this respect, most people focus on online websites or dating websites, where they can find similar persons sharing the same interests and passions.

Actually, social networks or dating websites might be the right answer for starting a new relationship these days. After all, in this way, we have the possibility to know a person, with his/ her good or bad parts only after a quick browsing of their profiles or a couple of exchanged messages. In the same time, you get the possibility to stop the conversation right at that moment, of you can choose to move further and start a new relationship.

The world of dating has changed along with the change in the technology field. The biggest problem is to decide which service to use, and when. If you recently decided to start your dating profile in order to meet new persons, many you will need some help in this matter. Here is a couple of aspects you should take into consideration.

The most important rule in online dating is that there are no rules. You get to set your own rules and play the games you want to play. Being in the search for the appropriate person might be quite difficult, but as long as you are comfortable with every aspect of the social life, then, you are on the right path.

Before you start browsing for appropriate persons sharing your own interests, you need to create an appropriate profile. You will need to provide a profile picture, which describes you in the best way possible. Therefore, you might want to focus on taking a picture of yourself, without glasses, hats, or extensive makeup. After all, the profile picture represents the first contact you have with another user.

Next, you will also have to deal with the details of your profile. Keep it clean and real. Share only real information such as the school or college you took, your job, your interests, the books you enjoy reading, and the movies you want to watch. If you lie on your personal profile, the when a person is interested in you, he or she might find quite a surprise when the real you is unveiled.

Now, sending a message or text might seem an appropriate way to communicate especially since you get to discuss in an indirect manner with the respective person. However, texting can become tiresome. It is a good choice for young teenagers, but, for adult and mature user, text dating is impersonal and frustrating. Moreover, hitting the right letters on a small keyboard is difficult, and you might end up saying the wrong things.

In this respect, you should avoid this type of communication and choose to call her. After a couple of emails, assuming that there is a mutual interest in between, a phone number exchange is the right thing to do. Gaining the trust of a person through emails might be difficult and complex, and talking over the phone is a step closer.

When you end up having a phone number, you should give him or her call. Women tend to be a little bit skeptical compared to men. In this respect, you should try to make her feel confident and safe. On the phone, try to be your authentic self. Do not try to pose as somebody else, because you will find it difficult to keep up with a bunch of lies.

In the same time, it is important to note the fact that dating works better with integrity. Express honesty and safety, and in no time, you will gain her trust.

Now, in the last part, I want to mention the social networks aspect. For example, Facebook is a great opportunity to meet new persons, but using this service for dating might be risky. You get your personal aspects and details displayed on the front page. Facebook can be a real help when you want to know a new person because you focus on her or him interests, passions, likes and dislikes, but in the same time, Facebook can come and hit you in the face. Therefore, you should be very careful when posting or sharing something online, especially when you share; something related to a certain person you dated a long time.