How to Make the First Date Perfect

First dates are hard for pretty much anybody. When you think about having to spend some time in the company of a person you like but you do not it very well, might be quite anxiety provoking. And that is for a good reason. Moreover, when you think about the fact that you will never have another chance for creating a good first impression.

The stakes are pretty high when you have just met a great woman that you might share the rest of your life with, and you definitely need to do the best out of yourself. For this reason, here are three aspects that you need to keep in mind to make the first date perfect.

1. It is a date, not a job interview

Men focus mostly on behaving politely on a first date, but sometimes, too much politeness can become actually boring. Most women come share the first impressions with others, and they really need to be impressed. For this, a man needs to heat up the usual, to make the first meeting polite, and to bring in conversations by nurturing interest, excitement, and enticement in a woman. The easiest way to do this is to speak to her as if you want to have fun. You can also treat her like a friend instead of a potential employer.

In the same time, focus on bringing common talking points in the conversations and redirect it in a way that creates fun instead of tension and stiffness. For instance, if she is wearing something interesting or out of the ordinary, you could tease her gently about it. Instead of wasting too much time talking about your job, you can share an exciting experience you had in the past, asking her to share one of hers.

2. Avoid Difficult Questions

Once a woman you just meet starts to think about you as a potential relationship partner, you should stop with the annoying and attraction killing questions. For instance, on a first date, it is imperative to avoid questions such as “Where do you think this is going?” or “So, do you like me?’. These types of questions suggest desperation and desperation is the biggest attraction killer. In the same time, you will make a girl or women feel uncomfortable and nervous. Instead, you can ask so many interesting questions regarding her job, her likes and dislikes, her hobbies and passions. Show her you are aware, interested, and inquisitive.

3. The Right Body language

Besides the right questions, you also need to pay a lot of attention to your body language. When you meet a woman for the first time, you need to pay attention to how you choose to stand in front of her. After all, the body language does the talking for you, even before you actually start saying words out of your mouth. It is important to maintain eye contact all the time. This will suggest confidence and awareness. Sit upright. Is she draws her back away from you, never lean into reach her. Instead, make sure you draw back too. When you speak, use a low, slow voice tone. If you rush your words, and you practically yell at her, you are more likely to say stupid and perhaps rude things.

As a bottom line, if you want to make your first date perfect, you should act like a friend instead of stiff, avoid asking stupid questions and use the right body language. If you follow these simple guidelines, I am sure you will be just fine, and you will definitely impress your girl.